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Post by bobgrill on Oct 1, 2012 17:43:51 GMT -5
The title pretty much says it all. if you have any problems you are currently having and feel like you would benefit from some help here, feel free to post it. Currently, there's this girl in one of my classes who I am somewhat... attracted to, yet at the same time I am terrified for some reason to talk to her. I'm not sure what to do. I mean, I'm not entirely anti-social or anything, but I'm just not sure how to go about talking to her. In case you can't tell, I'm not fast with girls Anyway, i appreciate any help I can get.
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Post by The Jester Of Tortuga on Oct 1, 2012 18:23:29 GMT -5
Just do it sir!
You will never know unless you try mate, So I say just do best case scenario you get a girlfriend and/or laid. Worst case scenario you move on and try again.
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Post by chipsandlicorice on Oct 1, 2012 19:32:41 GMT -5
Jester is right, the least you could do is give it a go, and hey, you know how girls talk even if she says no she'll probly tell her friends you asked her out and that might perk someone else's intrest once you've made yourself known.
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Post by johnnyshitcase on Oct 1, 2012 19:42:15 GMT -5
I have to say, it does take balls to do it but just don't think about it too much and do it. Not everyone has it in them, but you'll never know unless you try. At least you'll get an answer - even a no is better than thinking day in day out "Man I wonder what what she would have said?". I've had a bunch of yes and no answers and of course times I've sat on the fence and then kicked myself later when the chance has gone. Everyone's the same. Work to your strengths and be yourself. I'm very sarcastic, dry humoured and witty - some girls love this and find it fun especially if they're the same. Others it falls flat and you can tell that within minutes. Go for it mate. Zardoz commands it
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Post by The Jester Of Tortuga on Oct 1, 2012 19:49:01 GMT -5
We need What Would Zardoz Do?(WWZD) Banners!
But yeah, be yourself. Dont try anything fancy because it doesn't work too well. I can get away with it in the loveable goofball sense, so I can play pretty much anything up. Just be confidant, chicks dig confidence.
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Post by bobgrill on Oct 1, 2012 23:16:03 GMT -5
Allright well I'm gonna just casually start up a conversation next opportunity I get. I know we have a few similar interests and she's into movies and stuff like me, so that gives me something to talk about. Thanks for the advice and wish me luck.
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Post by The Jester Of Tortuga on Oct 2, 2012 0:35:21 GMT -5
Bring her to the forum, we will put in a good word for ya!
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Post by bobgrill on Oct 2, 2012 1:34:12 GMT -5
Haha yeah maybe I'll mention it to her.
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Post by The Jester Of Tortuga on Oct 2, 2012 1:36:56 GMT -5
...Or Prof. Bruce will steal her from you... its 50/50
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Post by bobgrill on Oct 2, 2012 3:16:00 GMT -5
Never gonna happen
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